Radhika Apte reveals pregnancy journey: 'Never had any plans to have children'
Radhika Apte opens up about the struggles of pregnancy and her expectations for parenthood.
Nov 05, 2024
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During her appearance at the BFI London Film Festival on October 16, Radhika Apte proudly displayed her growing baby bump in a series of red carpet photos. The actor chose to follow her own path, despite many celebrities following suit on social media.
Private approach to pregnancy announcement
In an interview with the Bombay Times, Radhika said that she was hoping they wouldn't see the bump, but it was way too noticeable. If the movie premiere of Sister Midnight hadn't occurred, it's likely that no one would have noticed. "Oh, I'm pregnant" or "Oh, we had a child" would never have crossed her mind as a social media announcement; that's private.
Radhika opened up about the emotional and physical changes she is experiencing as a result of being pregnant. She lives in London with her musician husband, Benedict Taylor.
Physical and emotional struggles during pregnancy
“Not very good, actually” is her response when asked how she's feeling during her pregnancy. She has gone five nights without sleep, which has been quite challenging due to the onset of third trimester insomnia and her inability to fall asleep.
Reflecting on her pregnancy thus far, Radhika said that she never had any intentions to have children. Thus, this has been a significant turning point and a surprising turn of events in her life. During pregnancy, the sacredness of the experience dictates that no one speaks the truth, even when it's difficult. When carrying a child, some women find it easier than others. Being a highly active person, it has been particularly challenging for her to mentally and physically prepare for what is to come.
Grateful for a supportive partner
Radhika adds that the reality of her and her husband's impending parenthood is beginning to set in. Benedict has been an encouraging companion, and she does feel lucky because she feels so cared for while discussing this. He watches out for her. She can't help but feel drawn to it. However, this should be the norm, and she deeply sympathizes with women who are married to unsupportive men or in toxic marriages, as they must be facing significant challenges.
The actor plans to return to work perhaps as early as March of next year, after her December due date. She says, "I'm quite old school," in response to an inquiry about whether or not she has considered what kind of parent she would rather be. Parents, not children, should take precedence, in her opinion. Many individuals fear evaluation and labeling as poor parents. Because of all the demands, the focus turns to the child. Even though becoming a parent is wonderful, many of her friends wish they had more time to themselves. Assigning value to oneself is not egocentric.
Radhika could care less what other people think of her parenting abilities because parenting is a very judgemental profession. It matters to her that she is happy.
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